I’ve Never Really Fit in One Box

I’ve spent a lot of my life trying to figure out who I was supposed to be. At 55, I’m much more interested in discovering who I’m still becoming. ❤️

Three People. One Relationship. A Lot of Assumptions.

People see three people in a relationship and almost immediately start trying to solve it. Who is really with whom? Who gets jealous? Who is the “third”? Who has the most power? Who is sleeping with whom? Who is secretly unhappy? Who is going to get hurt? It is interesting how quickly people move from […]

What If Your Truth Makes Other People Uncomfortable

For most of my life, I thought truth and goodness were supposed to make people more comfortable. If I was doing life right, surely the people I loved would understand. If I was making good choices, surely good people would recognize that. If I was being honest, surely honesty would lead to connection. I believed—without […]

I Went to Yoga Looking for Demons

I wish I were exaggerating that title. I’m not. 😂 At the time, I was working at the hospital when our marketing director, Karen, asked me to come to her office. Her doctor had told her she needed to try yoga because of some health issues she was having, but she was nervous about going […]